Posted on: February 24, 2011
Classic Courtesy
3 up-to-date tips on timeless etiquette from expert Peggy Post
By Anna Sachse
CTW Features
Peggy Post, author of “Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette” (William Morrow, 5th edition; 2005), offers modern advice for couples navigating the social graces of wedding planning.
Forget the word ‘rules’
Instead, think of etiquette as guidelines that will help you enhance relationships and make your event run as smoothly as possible.
Be kind, considerate and respectful
If, for example, you don’t wish to invite children, get the word out in a personal way, such as a polite phone call, rather than stamping “Adults-Only” on the invite.
Don’t think everything has to be perfect.
Being organized and delegating tasks will help you stay on top of details, but try to remember that you’re not just planning an event; you and your fiancé are planning a future together, and that’s what matters most.